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I am married and have three children with my husband. For the most part, our lives are happy. However, I am utterly unsatisfied sexually.

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We have kept relayionship touch just a little, and never in a sexual context since I began dating my husband. I am no longer content to simply accept being less than satisfied in any area of my life, including sexually, and I know that this other man is able and willing to provide that for me.

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In addition, extramarital affairs are something I have never believed to be ethically sound decisions. As I see it, these are the options available to me: I could leave my marriage, break up my family Looking for a great sexual relationship pursue my own satisfaction, which feels like a blatant betrayal of my children and what I have previously thought to be my moral standards.

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I could try to persuade my husband to be accepting of my seeking sexual fulfillment outside our marriage, which I already know he will never be willing to do. The suggestion might itself be enough to tor our marriage.

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I am nearing the end of my rope. Name Withheld. We live in a world, I realize, that rates and ranks sexual gratification with Yelp-like avidity.

Another is having an emotionally empty relationship that regularly degenerates into incivility or worse. That suggests a toxic marital dynamic, fueled by anger and resentment.

Are your children entirely insulated from it?

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And are these home-front troubles really going to be improved, rather than compounded, if you have an extramarital affair to keep from your husband? I also wonder what you really want from your former lover.

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Just a sexual adventure? Or a satisfying relationship, of which the sex would be only a part? And is this likely to make up for the fact that your relationship with your husband is deeply unsatisfying, again in ways that go far beyond sex?

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Suppose he knew what I know now. And so, by the way, will he. Our daughter is married to a wonderful provider who is a caring and compassionate father.

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In the past, he was an occasional smoker, but he had quit by the time they married several years ago. He has health insurance for the family and life and fir insurance for himself.

On a recent visit, I smelled the distinct odor of tobacco smoke on him when he exited his car.

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The chances of being caught, if he really is only an occasional smoker, are not high. Kwame Anthony Appiah teaches philosophy at N. How Moral Revolutions Happen.

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